In this episode, Peter Mallouk sits down with Shawn Achor to explore what truly makes a happier, more meaningful life. They discuss why pursuing happiness isn’t selfish, how “happiness anxiety” holds many people back and why social connection is the strongest predictor of long-term well-being. They also touch on how money and success fit into a happy life. Through research, stories and practical habits, Shawn and Peter share ways to build more joy, gratitude and meaning in everyday life.
(00:04) Introduction
(00:20) From Divinity school to happiness research
(06:07) How happiness anxiety robs us and others of joy
(09:16) How extremes of optimism and pessimism lead to decision paralysis
(10:34) Why social support and connection are key to happiness
(13:27) How small happiness habits can reduce loneliness
(16:03) How to practice gratitude and build social connections
(22:39) Why practicing gratitude improves happiness
(31:01) How lack of social connections increase depression
(37:47) What we get wrong about happiness
(42:55) Why comparison is the thief of joy
(52:44) How small habits change systems
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